Why are you attracted to the wrong guy again!?
Someone at the forum at my favorite site, powerful intentions asked what to do about an attraction to a coworker who she knows is not the right man for her. Here is what I said…
I don’t know if this will help… and I know you have all the wisdom within yourself to solve this … but I can’t help giving advice, I’m just a busy body!
Have you read The Power of Now by Tolle?
Your pain boy wants to inflict pain on his pain body
He has a whole chapter on the pain body that is very useful in your situation and another on relationships that is right up your ally. We keep being attracted to the wrong people because we our pain body is being attracted to a similar “vibration” Logically we know this is all wrong but the pain body wants more pain and we think it is “love”.
After the honeymoon phase the arguing starts!
The two pain bodies begin “feeding” on each other through hurt and blame. These energy fields are partly from our parents and partly just from the human collective. They are simply emotions that have formed a clotted stagnant energy pool, that are dormant until someone triggers them.
Stay awake and don’t feed the pain body
By staying awake and aware you can simply watch the pain body and not feed it any longer. Soon it will dissolve and transmute into useful, positive energy and you will wonder why you were ever attracted to this person!
If you’re healthy his pain body will look elsewhere
I bet as you become aware of what is going on this person’s pain body will no longer make advances. He is looking for pain and when his pain body feels you are healthy and will not feed it he will simply go look for someone at his own vibration. The next guy you attract will be way nicer.
There is also a lot of good info on relationships and pain bodies in A New Earth as well.
Good luck and starvation to the pain body!
